Volunteering and Service: Making it Personal with Pegge Erkeneff

How do you invest your time towards the needs and concerns that capture your attention, or heart of care? Is it possible you have the specific talent or rising empathy that might be exactly what someone else needs? Have you pondered the differences between making a financial donation, volunteering your time, or even advocating on a policy level? 

Service and volunteering are powerful agents for healing, connecting, and transformation. In this workshop, Momentum member Pegge Erkeneff leads a discussion on volunteering, service, and ways we can be present to others. Together weā€™ll explore questions like, what problems can you solve? What need or gap in your community grabs your attention? 

More about Pegge

Pegge is an author, spiritual guide, editor and retreat leader who believes our service, presence, and volunteering can be a gift not only to others but to ourselves. Through her work in soup kitchens, hospice centers, citizen advisory boards, community events, political advocacy, and suicide awareness, Pegge has discovered a richness in life through service and volunteering, all while living a full, demanding life. Pegge is the author of Your Spiritual Garden: Tending to the Presence of God and God Any Time Any Place: The Many Ways College Students Pray. 

Listen: Volunteering and Service: Making it Personal

Shownotes

  • Busting through the barriers of who is serving whom
  • A better question for todayā€™s young people: what problem in the world do you want to solve? Is it necessary? 
  • Service and volunteering: what does it mean? Being present, listening, writing a check, fundraising, advocacy.
  • Finding the intersection: what's my greatest gift + whatā€™s my hunger to serve?
  • On listening: itā€™s about receptivity, not problem-solving. Itā€™s our presenceā€”who we are and how we show up.
  • ā€œThe biggest surprise for me is what Iā€™m receiving when I think that Iā€™m giving. I generally get a gift back that reminds me thereā€™s so much beauty in the world.ā€
  • Two paths to spiritual growth: suffering and service
  • ā€œBecause I have a heart of care and compassion, thereā€™s a responsibility. True self-actualization is standing with others and collaboration and being a change agent in the world for something that really grabs my heartā€”thatā€™s important and that I care aboutā€”that will serve others.ā€
  • Choosing what to do based on whatā€™s best, not whatā€™s good
  • Saying no: the more I have in energy, the more Iā€™m giving in the world. Itā€™s not to say we shouldnā€™t show up in tough situations, but we canā€™t do that day in and day out all of the time. Saying, ā€œWe canā€™t give what we donā€™t haveā€ and ā€œThereā€™s not time to do good stuff, thereā€™s only time to do whatā€™s best.ā€
  • ā€œHope for me is now being able to be in the darkness without hope. Sitting in dark places with somebody or with myself when Iā€™m broken and shredded because of whatā€™s happened or what I see in the worldā€”not having answers and sitting in the darkā€”then suddenly realizing youā€™re not alone there.ā€
  • ā€œOne beating heart actually becomes hope, even if itā€™s completely in the dark. Simply because Iā€™m here and Iā€™m breathing and I care. Befriend that even in myself and feel it in my body and make friends with that, even for ten seconds. Thatā€™s being compassionately kind and of service to myself.ā€
  • Isaiah 40:31: "but those who hope in the Lord / will renew their strength. / They will soar on wings like eagles; / they will run and not grow weary, / they will walk and not be faint.
  • Volunteer with what I know, not what I think I should do. 
  • ā€œWhat we take for granted that everyone else knows is the gift that we haveā€
  • Whatā€™s an image or sound rising in you from this conversation?